chipper

No, no, not that type of chipper...

No, no, not that type of chipper…

So begins the least favorite part of my research project. To be fair, it’s really only because I tend to hate talking on the phone with strangers (and if I have to leave a voicemail, it’s over; I ramble forever). I think I’m super awkward when it comes to phones and I find it difficult to gauge what the other person’s thinking/feeling when there is no body language to go off of. Just their tone and the inflections in their voice while my somewhat antisocial phone is hating on the reception.

I managed to find/bump into my mentor to see if I could use the conference room and she was all for it. Before I went on my way, she told me to make sure I composed myself before I made the phone calls. This is definitely good advice, because the other reasoning I have towards hating phone calls is that I think I sound like a five year old. Unless I’m distraught with hunger pangs or wildly sleep-deprived, I think I usually sound like a super-happy cheerful kid. (The fact that I’m Asian probably does not help. A whole lot of people asked if I was old enough to drink last week. I kinda felt like answering that I’d gotten picked up from the local high school just for fun. Melanie has all the reason in the world to think of me as a really big kid [at heart, she means].)

L: Just make sure you’re not too bubbly.
F: Yeah, I definitely need to tone that down.
L: But it’s not that I don’t want you to be friendly. Just make sure you also have that gravity too.
F: Friendly but professional?
L: Yes, exactly.

Working on it! Today went well, although I definitely went the route of friendly more so than professional.

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